Friday, June 22, 2012

Reading others mail is a crime....

Here is a letter I wrote a missionary.  I liked it so much I thought I'd post it.


Writing missionaries is always so hard.  Do I talk about spiritual things?  Do I offer something that you don’t get in your missionary life?  Do I talk about my life?  Maybe I’ll just talk to you about physics.  If there is one thing in life I know well it is physics, which is how we met in the first place.  You asked for help on your homework, and then you needed to use the internet, but it was out at our place as well.  So I introduced you to Mitch, Nich, and Mike and they introduced you to Rebecca Black.  I remember being slightly embarrassed and talked to them about being more presentable when I bring girls over.  Jokingly of course… yet not at the same time.
Back to physics.  Today I learned about Fresnel coefficients, but they are pronounced without the “s”.  They are a big mess of equations that tell us how light reflects and transmits.  They are ugly, hard to work with, slightly unintuitive but strangely enough they do a good job of explaining how light passes through glass, such as a stained glass window.  Do you see those much in Ireland?  It is interesting how something so elegant and simple can be so hard to grasp.  And even then the model breaks down quite easily.  Light isn’t something that can be easily picked apart and understood, despite our best efforts.  And even if we could explain it completely it can’t be appreciated from this view, the end result is a lot of unfulfilling work and a head ache.  One may know more about light from Fresnel (Don’t forget the “s” is silent) coefficients, but it is much more worthwhile to go outside and feel the light.  There is value in knowledge but that cannot replace feeling the light.
It is fitting that light is often associated with truth.  We often think of the truth as being clear and straight forward.  Of course even the simplest of truths have been dissected and reconstructed in models that only work under certain conditions.  One would hope that when the truth is presented that it would be recognized but sometimes it fails to take grasp.  Among the classes I take now I also sit in on Chem 105 to learn some basic chemistry for grad school.  It is funny to see the teacher talk about atomic structure, something we learn in physics, and see the faces of the people who are learning it for the first time.  The truth is sometimes, such as this case, far from eloquent.  Sometimes truth is very eloquent but sometimes not.  We need to toss away what we know and even what we know we can know to accept some truths.    Some truth is so bizarre that we never can really know it, we just get used to it.  Perhaps a better way to say that last sentence is there is value in learning the truth but that cannot replace accepting the truth.
Well I’m sorry to have gone on about such a boring subject as physics.  I’d have to imagine that there is zero to no relevance to your life.  You’ll have to forgive my rambling, yesterday was a long day and I’m tired today.  I enjoy writing other people though.  I feel like I’m more honest with other people than I am myself.  I don’t have much to be honest about but at least I know that I’m not hiding anything.
For the record everything is going well.  Classes, research, running, all the above.  I’m really good at doing the things I’m good at.  It’s the more challenging things where I get hung up now and then.  I try not to get frustrated with those things.  I’m not perfect, but I’m getting good at that too.  Now I just get disappointed.  That is a good thing, to feel a longing for something better and be disappointed not to having that thing, so long as that longing doesn’t detract from the very thing we want to have.  Or want to be.
This letter is getting a little long.  I have a tendency to dominate conversations.  I’d have to imagine that the length of this letter may be a bit much.  If sister missionaries are anything like brother missionaries your companion has already or will ask you soon, “Well who is that from?” and you’ll say “Just a friend,” to which she will say in a deeper teasing voice as a wide grin spreads across her face, “That’s a friend with an awful lot to say...” or something of the sort.  Just tell your companion that I’ve spent over half the letter talking about physics.  Nothing kills a conversation like physics.  I suppose that is why I’m talking about it with you.  You can’t walk away from me, or at least if you do I won’t know any better.
That being said I’m running out of steam.  You’re a wonderful person and are doing great things.  If you don’t get back for a while don’t feel bad.  The only person I wrote besides my family by the end of my mission was Taylor now and then.  And that was mostly to keep from going sane.  Most of our letters ended with some sort of schematic of what our apartment after the mission would look like.  We fought over whether to get a rounded couch or not and I asserted several times that I didn’t like bean bags.  We never did have a rounded couch, and he’ll take his bean bag with him next year.  We never had a fire pole that landed in a hot tub either.  But despite the lack of what we anticipated, our lives are furnished with memories, from Taylor and others as well.   In my house I have a painted sheet on the wall, some skis in the corner, and a picture of a tired bear that I bought in Park City.  On that note keep up the Lord’s work and know that we are all rooting for you.
Peace, love, and I better stop before I get sidetracked again,
Eric 

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